**STANDALONE PHOTO (NYT8) NEW YORK -- May 29, 2005 -- NY-MEMORIAL-DAY-2 -- Dante Zappala and his wife, Selma Schlee, observe a moment of silence during a Memorial Day ceremony at the Vietnam Memorial in New York on Sunday, May 29, 2005. Schlee holds a poster bearing a portrait of Zappala's bother, Sgt. Sherwood Baker, who was killed in Baghdad. (Tyler Hicks/The New York Times)